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Cake day: February 14th, 2025

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  • I hear you.

    Search and rescue is complex ethically.

    Australia has the largest maritime search and rescue area and our GDP is tiny compared to most other countries. Shit gets really expensive mounting missions to the middle of the Indian ocean like for the mf370 flight and stuff.

    I think the basic premise with search and rescue is that the expense is mostly disregarded if there’s any likelihood that someone is still alive.

    I suspect that these guys knew that, and didn’t disclose that they’d heard this bang such that resources continued to be provided for the search. Who knows what I would’ve done. As an external party it’s clearly “wrong” but I’ll leave others to judge them for it.





  • Do people often blame you for their kids doing those things?

    People might tell you about it because… you know… maybe they think you’re a friend or maybe they’re just venting or maybe they’re making small talk.

    Parents often make the mistake of thinking everyone understands what it’s like. They’re trying to find common ground by sharing those struggles.

    If you don’t like it, just channel the conversation to something you do like. That said, sometimes it’s just good to let people vent. People like talking about their kids, and it’s a sneaky way to ingratiate yourself to them.






  • Aiding and abetting a genocide is depraved.

    Agreed.

    Going on national TV and lying about seeing “pictures of 40 beheaded babies” is depraved.

    Agreed.

    He deserves much worse.

    Agreed.

    Celebrating when a war criminal gets prostate cancer? Not depraved at all in my opinion.

    Hard disagree.

    You can acknowledge that he’s an awful person while refraining from celebrating his misfortune.

    If someone deserves punishment, celebrating that punishment is basically just hatred. I might want to get that looked at.


  • I don’t really care what the hard antinatalism position is in the same way I don’t care what the hard flat earth position is.

    You’re talking about it as though it’s a credible ideology when in reality it is, at best, a nutty thought experiment with no real world application.

    It’s not a question of whether being brought into existence is good.

    As a parent, I acknowledged and accepted the risk that a potential child might not have wanted to be born. That’s it. Presently, I don’t know how I will navigate that if it turns out to be the case, the same way I don’t know how I will navigate my daughter dating or my son watching porn, but I do know I’m going to try my best to figure those things out when I encounter them.

    Every parent since the dawn of time has made up solutions as problems have arisen, some better than others. No parent seriously considered whether their unconceived child consented.