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  • poor people never could live in cities. because they have the stuff rich people want, and they push out the poor people.

    and the people who live in impoverished neighborhoods in urban areas, also don’t have access to any of that.

    because those things all require lots of money. where i live opera tickets are cheaper than going to see a local band in a bar. but both are going to be a minimum spend of 50-80 dollars.





  • I never felt impoverished until rich people told me i shouldn’t be alive because my life doesn’t meet there inflated living standards.

    Just like my 150K a year salary feels rich to me, and they tell me it’s shameful and a poverty wage.

    What you don’t understand is that you don’t get to determine how other people live, or their living standards. They do.

    You can feel bad for people like me for ‘suffering’, but what you don’t get is that to us it was never suffering. it was a normal life. If you think my life was impoverished, it’s likely because your own was so privledged. and to think anyone who doesn’t live their life by your standards is ‘less than’ you is pure arrogance.


  • depends on who you ask. depends on the size of the bedroom.

    for a rich person, it would be a much higher threshold than for those who are poor. that’s all about ‘standards’ of living.

    i grew up on canned/frozen foods, and yeah ate a shitload of mac and cheese and other horrible foods. i hate plenty of calories, even if they were unhealthy. but it’s what we could afford. i also only had cheap fall apart clothes. but i was never hungry, or cold. i didn’t shared a bedroom, but many of my friends did. like a lot of poor people, we spent more on certain things like clothes because we could not afford nicer things that lasted longer. but where i lived… everyone was like that so it wasn’t a big deal.

    most of my peers where i live now, think i grew up in poverty, because they grew up much wealthier. i’ve been on first dates where the person lecture me how my parents were irresponsible to have me if they could not afford to pay for my college or buy me a new car at 16, etc. i usually laugh at their absurdly high standards, but to them it is a ‘bare minimum’ and anyone who doesn’t have those things shouldn’t exist.

    for a family of 5 living in a 1 bedroom eating shitty food, any minor improvement would feel like a huge success. but waht rich people don’t get about poor people is they tend to appreciate that they aren’t homeless and starving, and don’t really have a concept of nicer/healthier food because it doesn’t exist in their social peer group. i never ate healthy food until i got to college because it was the first time in my life it was ever available to me. nobody in my rural working-class down ate that stuff, just like we didn’t go to live performances, own luxury cars, or a ton of other stuff.




  • dude, everyone is one medical issue away from bankrupcy. if i got cancer i’d go bankrupt.

    yes, as long as you pay rent, have heat, and other necessities you’re not poor in in poverty.

    i don’t know what your standard is, but i grew up with a roof over my head, food in my belly, and zero luxuries. we were considered middle class. not poor. our houses were old and crappy, and our cars were used based models. the only ‘luxury’ we had was cable tv.

    the issue is now ‘middle class’ seems to mean ‘upper middle class’ as if if you can’t lve in the best towns, with teh best schools, and travel to europe with your family every year, you are ‘poor’. where i live people lve in posh expensive years, have the $5000 in electronics or more, are leasing new model cars, and traveling abroad 2-3x a year and claim they are ‘in poverty’. because their salary is ‘only’ 100K.


  • and while there may be a limited subset of circumstances where that money isn’t sufficient, that’s not what poverty is.

    bingo. where i live everyone thinks they are in ‘poverty’ because they can’t afford luxuries like expensive cars, expensive vacations, and luxury housing. they are not anywhere near true poverty. but since most grew up wealthy/middle class, they think they are.

    as someone who grew up lower-class, it blows my mind how poor most people are with money, and how they blame society rather than their own budgeting skills. i know people who make 40K a year who spend 10K a year traveling, and then cry poor.






  • that’s because your real estate is bought up by people like me with 150K salaries who think your 1800 rent is dirt cheap. In Boston a studio is over 3K now.

    i know people who moved to Maine to find cheaper housing because none is available in Boston area. and the people who live in Boston fight any/all development to expand the housing supply, including renters. like i have friends who rent, who pay 3K a month, and then go to town meetings to fight new housing developments, and then complain went there rent goes up another 10%